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Spiritual InfluencesJuly 20, 20263 min read

Against Division and Strife

A prayer against gossip, contempt, and the influence that turns disagreement into war — in your home, church, and workplace.

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Father, in the name of Jesus I stand against the influence of division, strife, and contempt in my home, my church, my workplace, and my friendships.

I renounce gossip, slander, score-keeping, and the quiet pleasure of being right at someone else’s expense.

Where I have fed division, forgive me.

Ephesians 4:3 calls me to make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.

I take responsibility for my part of that effort.

I sever my agreement with contempt — the habit of writing a person off instead of dealing honestly with the issue.

James 3:16 says that where there is envy and selfish ambition, there is disorder and every evil practice.

Search my motives and remove envy before it becomes conflict.

Give me courage for the honest conversation I have been avoiding, and restraint for the message I should not send.

Where reconciliation is possible and safe, make me the one who moves first.

Where it is not safe, give me wisdom to keep distance without keeping bitterness.

I decree that peace, truth, and humility will govern my speech.

In Jesus’ name, amen.

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Father, in the name of Jesus I stand against the influence of division, strife, and contempt in my home, my church, my workplace, and my friendships.

I renounce gossip, slander, score-keeping, and the quiet pleasure of being right at someone else’s expense. Where I have fed division, forgive me.

Ephesians 4:3 calls me to make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. I take responsibility for my part of that effort.

I sever my agreement with contempt — the habit of writing a person off instead of dealing honestly with the issue.

James 3:16 says that where there is envy and selfish ambition, there is disorder and every evil practice. Search my motives and remove envy before it becomes conflict.

Give me courage for the honest conversation I have been avoiding, and restraint for the message I should not send.

Where reconciliation is possible and safe, make me the one who moves first. Where it is not safe, give me wisdom to keep distance without keeping bitterness.

I decree that peace, truth, and humility will govern my speech.

In Jesus’ name, amen.

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Scripture quotations are from the New International Version (NIV) unless otherwise noted.

“Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” — Ephesians 4:3 (NIV)

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What does the prayer “Against Division and Strife” mean?

Division rarely arrives as open war; it arrives as a forwarded message, a private eye-roll, a story retold with the worst reading. This prayer names your own contribution first, then asks for the courage to have the honest conversation and the restraint not to have the destructive one.

How do I apply “Against Division and Strife” to my own life?

Delete the message you drafted to prove your point, and have the conversation directly instead. Stop one gossip loop this week by declining to pass the story on. Name the person you have written off and ask God to change your posture toward them. Where reconciliation is unsafe, keep the distance and drop the bitterness — both.

What Bible verse goes with this spiritual influences prayer?

“Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” — Ephesians 4:3 (NIV) Read the verse slowly before and after praying so the words shape how you pray rather than only how you feel.

Can I pray this prayer every day?

Yes. These daily prayers are free to read, print, or share, and repeating one for a week often does more than reading a new one each day. Praying the same scripture repeatedly helps it settle into how you think and respond.

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